The Ability to forgive....

[Haxxzor1]

Hello Everyone here at Halomods.
I've come to you seeking......Advice.
I'm 15 Years old and have a Girlfriend of the same age. Her name is Amanda. Her Father, Grandma, and Aunt Dislike me. She is not aloud to have relationships because their afraid she won't focus on school work. We have been dating since June 23rd, and she has excellent Grades. All A's except One class, which is B+. Her Father is the Main problem. If he doesn't want Amanda to date, Neither does her Grandma. So, he's my Target.

I NEED to get on his good side and make him realize that she can have relationships and do good in School.

This is My Progress:


I sent him, This.

He replied with This.

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What should I Do?
How do I get on His good side?
How can I make him see the good in a high school relationship?


Please Help me.

Note: Yes, I know it's just a 'Relationship'. This isn't the biggest priority in my Life ATM. And Don't say things such as, "Your young, why Bother?" because I Care for her and want to work this out. /Note

Edited for name - jks

[GametagAeonFlux]

Tell him about spellcheck. His typing is fucking awful.

[Tural]

I second that.

[Guest]

I'm sorry that you hate me going your daughter but we have something you wont let here have true love you dont want to give here happiness and joy, i love here if you cant understand that then you don't want your daughter to be happy.

[INSANEdrive]

Tell him about spellcheck. His typing is *** awful.

I second that.

O_O wow... *Sigh*

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What you want

[StalkingGrunt911]

I agree with GTAF, and looks like CE Mike needs it too.
Looks like your pretty much screwed, you could get on his good side but then he will still want her to do good in school, in your post it says you've been with her since June 23rd and in the message to her dad it says July 10th, so I'm assuming that your lying to him which isn't getting on his good side. Looks to me as if he has you cornered, mainly with the whole "if you care for Amanda as much as you say you do then you should understand that", so unless you don't care for her which I'm sure you do you will do what's best for her and that will get on her Dad's good side. It's only 3 years to wait.

[Darco]

Good luck with that. It doesn't look like you're going to be able to change his mind.

[Haxxzor1]

in your post it says you've been with her since June 23rd and in the message to her dad it says July 10th, so I'm assuming that your lying to him which isn't getting on his good side.

I Broke up with her on the 4th for reasons I didn't understand, and got back with her on the Tenth.

[newbymodder]

wow my first gf's mom hated me, kinda like your gf's dad they dislike you for no particular reason, id say your not going to marry her and be with her forever. You can try to get on her dad's good side which could help for the time you do date but in the long run it will be pointless because you'll break up and never see him again. His reasons arn't justified on why he won't let you date her but mehh parents are stubborn. My final opinion is this you can try and maybe make him change his mind but as soon as ya'll have a fight ect and she is crying to him your in hot water again. I say go for the ride and if you really think you need to talk to her dad and get on his good side do it but until then just have fun with the relationship. I dated my gf for like a year before she told her parents so you can go for a long time without having to talk to parents or get to like them and let them like you.

[Dalek]

i would personaly send this:
"I can see that you wish the best for your daughter but i hope you also understand that starving a growing mind of personal relationships dont help her at all.
You could be the most inteligent person on the face of the planet but not be happy relationships help the mind grow in many more ways than education can not saying education dosnt work but life and realtionships work in differnt ways to education.
If you truly want your daughter to grow and be happy let her grow and let her be happy through relationships remember back to when you was her age and realise how many happy times you must have had."

[Darco]

i would personaly send this:
"I can see that you wish the best for your daughter but i hope you also understand that starving a growing mind of personal relationships dont help her at all.
You could be the most inteligent person on the face of the planet but not be happy relationships help the mind grow in many more ways than education can not saying education dosnt work but life and realtionships work in differnt ways to education.
If you truly want your daughter to grow and be happy let her grow and let her be happy through relationships remember back to when you were her age and realise how many happy times you must have had."

That won't work. He doesn't want her to have his life.

[Danke]

1. Don't put her full name on the internets ;__; What do you think will happen if anyone googles her name =\

2. Get her to talk to her dad. This doesn't sound like a problem that you can affect directly.

[Haxxzor1]

1. Don't put her full name on the internets ;__; What do you think will happen if anyone googles her name =\

2. Get her to talk to her dad. This doesn't sound like a problem that you can affect directly.

1. Um, Nothing? Amanda, Lynn, And Duran are all very common names.

2. I want to spend more time with her. Thats why I need him to understand, she's fine with a Boyfriend.

[[cc]z@nd!]

1. Don't put her full name on the internets ;__; What do you think will happen if anyone googles her name =\

2. Get her to talk to her dad. This doesn't sound like a problem that you can affect directly.

1. Um, Nothing? Amanda, Lynn, And Duran are all very common names.

2. I want to spend more time with her. Thats why I need him to understand, she's fine with a Boyfriend.

as a first-hand witness to what is possible with someone's full name on the internet, DO NOT POST IT. with a simple full name, time, and someone's myspace/facebook/other online account, it's entirely possible to get their street address, phone #, school info, maybe even more. most people would stop at that and just harass her if she's done anything (like bestiality) but it's quite the hassle.

and, sorry for not reading the entire wall of text her dad posted, but chances are you're not going to be able to persuade him. if anyone can, it's probably his daughter, so have her talk with him.

if things don't work, it'll be tough temporarily, but you'll look back and see it in a different perspective. you're just 15, make sure you goof off and have fun before it's too late.

[Danke]

1. Don't put her full name on the internets ;__; What do you think will happen if anyone googles her name =\

2. Get her to talk to her dad. This doesn't sound like a problem that you can affect directly.

1. Um, Nothing? Amanda, Lynn, And Duran are all very common names.

2. I want to spend more time with her. Thats why I need him to understand, she's fine with a Boyfriend.

1. Quotes, yo.

2. All of what you said is irrelevant. Get her to talk to her dad, because he's not going to be persuaded by you.

most people would stop at that and just harass her if she's done anything (like bestiality)

I sincerely lol'd.

[antszy101]

Compromise
Talk about going out as friends, not boyfriend/girlfriend. When he sees that she can handle going out socially, he will give her more freedom.

[CptnNsan0]

wait until winter break and then hang out at there house all together as a family

[jks]

It's an unspoken internet rule, you do NOT put someone's full name in a public forum like this.

[DrXThirst]

So, he wants his daughter to do great in school, however, he cannot write a fully developed sentence himself? That's horrible. Tell him to look at himself.

[Darco]

What the hell are you talking about? He said he wants better for her...