trust of a grandparent

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 5:09 am

I am in need of advice for getting my grandma to trust me because shes watching me for the week while my parents are in Vegas. I have tried allot of things talking to her doing things i do every day that she thinks "are dangerous" and doesn't want me to do, ive tried allot and nothing seems to work please help me.

INSANEdrive · Post by **INSANEdrive** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 5:13 am

You must be desperate to look for help ( such as this ) here.

Hopefully I am proven wrong.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 5:14 am

INSANEdrive wrote:You must be desperate to look for help ( such as this ) here.

Hopefully I am proven wrong.

nope im desperate i could barley talk her out of walking me into my middle school.

INSANEdrive · Post by **INSANEdrive** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 5:17 am

Is it such a bad thing that she cares?

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 5:19 am

i know she cares but shes embarrassed me to much already. I love her but I don't want to end up being ridiculed for the next couple weeks.

INSANEdrive · Post by **INSANEdrive** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 5:33 am

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turk645 · Post by **turk645** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 5:43 am

yeah but you will get over it. Just stop caring what people think about you. I mean honestly i dont get why people get so worked up about how others feel about them. The only people you would care what they think of you are your family and the people you care about, not total strangers.

Sarb · Post by **Sarb** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 5:47 am

turk645 wrote:yeah but you will get over it. Just stop caring what people think about you. I mean honestly i dont get why people get so worked up about how others feel about them. The only people you would care what they think of you are your family and the people you care about, not total strangers.

This man speaks the truth.

Honestly if your going to get ridiculed, your going to get ridiculed.
Your grandma's just a window for them to get at you from, if it's closed they'll just find another.

People won't make fun of you if they like you, so focus on the real problem, not the effects of it.

HPDarkness · Post by **HPDarkness** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 12:17 pm

I don't think anyone in my school would really care if my grandparents walked me in. Most people would just think they are caring for me. I doubt you'd be ridiculed for having a grandparent. If people say anything just say "At least my family cares about me."

theycallmechad · Post by **theycallmechad** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 12:26 pm

It's just a week. Life goes on. You're not going to change your grandma's mind, so make adjustments. Again, it's only a week.

343GuiltySparkIVIX · Post by **343GuiltySparkIVIX** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 12:32 pm

What's with all the people looking for advice here lately?

HPDarkness · Post by **HPDarkness** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 12:37 pm

Staff on HaloMods are wise. They are like a band of old wise Chinese men.

343GuiltySparkIVIX · Post by **343GuiltySparkIVIX** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 12:40 pm

Hmm, I think otherwise, but that's my opinion...

bricksarefun · Post by **bricksarefun** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 12:45 pm

Fuckin stab that bitch. :\

shadowkhas · Post by **shadowkhas** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 12:55 pm

bricksarefun wrote:*** stab that ****. :\

gg. I hope that was sarcasm.
We're not like Chinese men. Just look at Scotty.

RaVNzCRoFT · Post by **RaVNzCRoFT** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 1:22 pm

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Sgt.Peppers · Post by **Sgt.Peppers** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 1:24 pm

Geez we need a freaking "Counseling" section now I swear.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 2:23 pm

this is also along the lines of how to strength are trust she doesn't trust me to do anything like the following

stay home alone
ride down the street on my bike
go to friends house
make ramps for my bike
lower my basketball hoop and do dunks
go anywhere near the road

its just getting kinda horrible when im sleeping and she makes me get up and go 2 miles to the post office and back.

and you guys are right i shouldn't care and if anyone does say anything like that i should just say at least i have a family who cares or something along those lines because honestly not alot of parents care if there child died around are school.

{TP}Spartan · Post by **{TP}Spartan** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 2:30 pm

just tell the people who make fun of u "that at least my family loves me" and then they'll shut up

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 2:42 pm

{TP}Spartan wrote:just tell the people who make fun of u "that at least my family loves me" and then they'll shut up

i know ive seen that happen before.

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