Valentine's Day!

sneakyn8 · Post by **sneakyn8** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 4:15 pm

Aumaan Anubis wrote:"bug and annoy" as in, talk to her on AIM and whatnot, like we usually do.

I was pretty positive that the steps in a relationship were

"Out" --> "Girlfriend"

Dunno if the other way has any other unforseen effects?

you made it seem as though asking her out was literrally going somewhere and thats it sorry for the confusion

Aumaan Anubis · Post by **Aumaan Anubis** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 4:16 pm

GametagAeonFlux wrote:
Aumaan Anubis wrote:If she says no, I will specifically ask her if she's telling a lie to spare my feelings, or if she's being serious.
I'll probably just ask if there's a chance of her saying yes at a different time. You can't really avoid that one...

Plus, if she says no, I'll probly just bug and annoy her on AIM as I usually do, we'd be friends again in no time
These are all horrible ideas for any sort of relationship (even as friends). She'll see you as a weak, desperate individual which is a major turnoff.

In what way?
Asking her to be truthful is seen as weak?

Ohhh, like, the asking her at a different time part?

I dunno, never been in a relationship, so...

GametagAeonFlux · Post by **GametagAeonFlux** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 4:21 pm

Aumaan Anubis wrote:If she says no, I will specifically ask her if she's telling a lie to spare my feelings, or if she's being serious.
I'll probably just ask if there's a chance of her saying yes at a different time. You can't really avoid that one...

Plus, if she says no, I'll probly just bug and annoy her on AIM as I usually do, we'd be friends again in no time

1) People are superficial and lie. If you don't overanalyze shit people say, it's not a problem. Questioning the truth of someone's statement is bad because if they were telling the truth, it makes you seem like a paranoid freak, and if they were lying then the confrontation spawned from it is just annoying and would probably make your friendship really awkward.

2) "At a different time" makes you seem clingy. Girls don't like clingy just as much as guys don't. If she likes you, cool, if she doesn't then tough shit. Move on in life, there are plenty of other girls out there.

3) Forcing a friendship is a bad idea. People come and go in life...if you fucked up your friendship just move on and get over it.

metkillerjoe · Post by **metkillerjoe** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 5:02 pm

0m3g4Muff1n987 wrote:Ha! All-guys high school. Well, there is one option left for you if you want to get into a relationship. I think you know what it is.

Yeah, I know *takes out razor*.

turk645 · Post by **turk645** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 5:19 pm

ill be alone, no suprise there.

Senor_Grunt · Post by **Senor_Grunt** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 7:03 pm

Meh, I'll probably go to the movies with these three girls I always chill with, come home and chill at my oxygen bar,

, then hit the hay.

HPDarkness · Post by **HPDarkness** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 7:07 pm

I decided that on this Valentines day. I will dress like a robot.

MoDFox · Post by **MoDFox** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 7:13 pm

HPDarkness1 wrote:I decided that on this Valentines day. I will dress like a robot.

Thats exactly what I'm going to do:

Senor_Grunt · Post by **Senor_Grunt** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 7:32 pm

Edit now. Seriously, you might get RC'd for sensor evasion or whatever. >_> Idk.

0m3g4Muff1n987 · Post by **0m3g4Muff1n987** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 7:39 pm

lmao. I just spit all over my screen.

noscottno · Post by **noscottno** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 8:02 pm

It's not the funny : /

Caboose{SE} · Post by **Caboose{SE}** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 8:07 pm

This thread is full of depression and people feeling sorry for themselves. >_>

Needs less unhappy.

sneakyn8 · Post by **sneakyn8** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 8:33 pm

i think i can help with that kinda

happy ill be getting a gf fo sho

unhappy shes a "good girl" (which i respect) but she dosnt drink or anything farther than making out wich is something ill have to get used to

ScottyGEE · Post by **ScottyGEE** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 8:38 pm

So you generally get girlfriends who drink a lot and then in their intoxicated state you get to have your way?

It almost sounds like you put it that way. But I'll wait for you to clarify before judging you ;p

gmp_gmp · Post by **gmp_gmp** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 9:31 pm

[quote="ScottyGEE"]So you generally get girlfriends who drink a lot and then in their intoxicated state you get to have your way

Darco · Post by **Darco** » Mon Feb 11, 2008 11:44 pm

GametagAeonFlux wrote:
0m3g4Muff1n987 wrote:[...]and if I didn't do it then, I will be stuck in the black hole that is friend's zone with her for the rest of my life, even though she probably won't put out anyway because she's a church girl.
Fixed.

That just made my day. I'll go to work, hang out with some friends and then go to my raid.

sneakyn8 · Post by **sneakyn8** » Tue Feb 12, 2008 12:14 pm

ScottyGEE wrote:So you generally get girlfriends who drink a lot and then in their intoxicated state you get to have your way?

It almost sounds like you put it that way. But I'll wait for you to clarify before judging you ;p

not a whole lot maybe if theyre at a party or something and i wont bang a girl if shes not sober because then id be taking advantage of her and thats not good

also i cant rise when drunk

bibbit · Post by **bibbit** » Tue Feb 12, 2008 12:26 pm

kibito87 wrote:Guys, seriously. Don't be afraid to ask them out on a date or atleast to get some coffee or something. You have nothing to lose. It actually shows the girl that you have the confidence to approach her. Trust me, it's better than just waiting. Waiting almost always gets you nowhere and from what you've already experienced, nowhere is lonely.

Believe it or not, that really helps. Thanks. I might just do that.

Aumaan Anubis · Post by **Aumaan Anubis** » Tue Feb 12, 2008 3:35 pm

sneakyn8 wrote:not a whole lot maybe if theyre at a party or something and i wont bang a girl if shes not sober because then id be taking advantage of her and thats not good

also i cant rise when drunk

>_>

reanimation-06 · Post by **reanimation-06** » Wed Feb 13, 2008 2:27 am

lol.
So what would you guys do if the girl you wanted to ask out drew this about you?